Friday, 13 March 2015

Let's Talk Sexual Harassment/ Wearing a Sexy Dress


Hey there!

CW: sexual harassment

Alright everybody. I am about to rant. A couple of times. I'm sorry I have been more or less AWOL over the past month (unless you follow me on Instagram), but I have been silly busy with the ins and outs of getting a job, starting my third year of university, taking care of my mental health and baking mango cakes.

But before I launch into my rant I feel like it is very important to introduce you to this dress:


This is my one of my favourite dresses. Like most of my stuff, I got it cheap at a thrift shop. It's comfy, flattering and makes me really love my body. I call it my "super hips" dress. And I would pretty much live in this dress if I didn't cop street harassment for it every time I go out in it. Literally. Every. Time. I live near a major road, and walking to the bus stop is really becoming an exercise in how many ways I can creatively respond to/ ignore gross cat-callers from cars.


Before heading over to Annika's house to take these photos, I sent her an exasperated message detailing the ins and outs of yet another shitty walk to the bus stop in this dress (she also has also written a fucking fantastic open-letter to cat-callers here). It was a really hot day, I was grossed-out, sweaty and bothered and had absolutely zero  tolerance for bros, so I got my teeth stuck into some searing and shouting, which to an outsider would make it seem like maybe I am an incredible bad-ass who doesn't get scared or isn't made anxious by shit like this. This is not true. It frightens me. It can ruin my day, hell, it can ruin my week. Over time, this kind of crap can, and does, ruin women and gender non-conforming people's lives.


It is a deadly serious issue. This is not about some well-intended dudes who just want to wish you a nice day as they speed off down the highway. This is about cis-men's perceived entitlement of the body of basically anyone who is not a cis-man. This is about the strategic layering of masculinity and power over time that continues to build an empire of misogyny in which we still reside in.

This video came across my newsfeed this morning, and it is a fantastic SBS report on sexual-harassment in Australia. According to this report, 83% of women aged 18-24 experience abuse from random guys in public. Definitely worth a watch.


Post by SBS 2.




Now, without a doubt the most time consuming, exhausting and difficult thing I have been doing recently is trying to get a job. I have worked in countless crappy waitress jobs over the years, and it's taken its toll on my well-being. From the misogyny spewed out from the some of the self-appointed small-business overlords to the snide, sexist remarks from my customers (no sir, sorry, I am not "on the menu" and I also don't "come with the special"), it has been a roller-coaster of tiring, sometimes terrible, sometimes incredibly fun and rewarding and always exhausting under-paid work days broken up with days of great tips that would sometimes be claimed by my boss because apparently I didn't work hard enough.





So, yeah. I am pretty over hospitality. So over the past year, I have been volunteering with The Trading Circle, an amazing not-for-profit business that sets up producer groups of women around the world living in poverty or hardship, and seeks to foster their skills while at the same time creating a source of fair income and trade. We sell their crafts in our shop, and the profits go directly back to them. It has been a wonderful place to work, not only for the amazing work behind the scenes but because of the amazing and supportive community I have been a part of, that has been a world away from my experience as a waitress/ barista.



So I decided recently that I have enough experience to break out into the world of paid retail work, and have successfully landed an awesome job at a not-for-profit second-hand boutique store in Sydney, run by an acclaimed international charity organisation. So that's pretty damn cool, and I get to manage the whole store for two days every week, going through donations, making the store pretty etc. I've only just started, but I love it. I feel lucky, and privileged to have been given such an opportunity.


(This is my favourite necklace, given to my by my gorgeous friend Rasiha for my birthday. Jeanette Winterson is one of my favourite authors, and writes fantastic things on the body and feminism.)



But that is the cool part. The not-so-cool part happened during another interview for a retail shop in the city.

I arrive, dressed in my smartest interview attire. Manager-dude shakes my hands before standing back, aghast by the amount of "electricity" we appear to share. I nervously laugh and try to remain composed. I want the job. During the course of the interview, the man attempts to stand over me, while asking me if he was "intimidating" me. He then tells me that he "knows (I am) a girl, but this job is more than just pretty things", before telling me that he and I could "get into real trouble here". Before I leave, he confides in me that no, I probably won't be getting this job, because sure I am perfectly qualified but he thinks I am too attractive for the role, and that I could get him into trouble because we are obviously so attracted to one another. 

"But" he says, "I want you to come back and visit me Katie. Come and visit me tomorrow."

I left the store quickly and called my friend for support, and then received a phone call from him asking where I lived.



I ended up filing a formal complaint with the Human Rights Commission and being involved in a series of events wherein this man was heavily reprimanded for his actions, and out of some miracle the CEO of the company was this amazing woman who helped me every step of the way. It is not always that easy to get justice though, so if you have been victim of an kind of sexual harassment in a workplace environment and live in Australia, don't feel like you have to keep it to yourself.

The Human Rights Commission lists example of sexual harassment occurring in the workplace (which happens to 1 in 5 women), including:

  • staring or leering
  • unnecessary familiarity, such as deliberately brushing up against you or unwelcome touching
  • suggestive comments or jokes
  • insults or taunts of a sexual nature
  • intrusive questions or statements about your private life
  • displaying posters, magazines or screen savers of a sexual nature
  • sending sexually explicit emails or text messages
  • inappropriate advances on social networking sites
  • accessing sexually explicit internet sites
  • requests for sex or repeated unwanted requests to go out on dates
  • behaviour that may also be considered to be an offence under criminal law, such as physical assault, indecent exposure, sexual assault, stalking or obscene communications.
If you have experienced any of this, or anything else that makes you feel uncomfortable, do not hesitate to say something, either to someone in a higher position, the HRC, a friend, or heck, me. I am more than happy to help if you need, and if so please send me an email at katie.j.buddle@gmail.com.



So that concludes the story of this sexy dress and my new job. Well, not really, but I am reaching critical lows of energy and need to take a nap. Because this is draining. But what is exciting is the potential for change, and our ability to reach out to one another and connect. We can get shit done, and it's hard, but we are doing it. So well done us.

Love always, 

Katie B xxx



60 comments:

  1. I am so proud that you did something about that horrific interview experience. I am actually too angry to write anything else about that. It must have been so scary and upsetting.

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  2. Perfect as always. So glad you made a post about this, and I seriously hope that it encourages more people to talk about their experiences. Love you <3 xx

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  3. One of the reasons I never dress up is because I feel anxious of the men's stares and/or verbal harassments. When I was really young I had an "over appreciation" (let's call it that) and that scarred me for life. Whenever a guys tries to hit on me I don't know if it's for who I am or how big my boobs are.. I love your super feminist posts, they never make me feel alone!!

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  4. Im so glad that guy that was interviewing you got what he deserved! Too many stories where the guy gets away with it. They need to learn that this is not okay! Thanks for writing this!

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  5. Katie, this is such a great post, and I am so angry that that situation happened to you -- but MAJOR applause to you for doing exactly what you did! I already commented on Annika's post, but the two of you are so eloquent and are saying precisely what needs to be said. This issue is at the forefront of so much right now, and it amazes me how there are people who still don't understand that this harassment is NOT a compliment and is NOT in any way okay. <3

    xox Sammi

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  6. Wow, that interviewer was so out of line, along with all the cat-callers you experience on a daily. I'm amazed that writing this was part of your response. Mine probably would have been to hide under my covers & not get out of bed for a week.

    xx

    Ellen

    www.ellenbourne.blogspot.com.au

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  7. It makes me so angry reading about your horrible experiences, I'm so glad that sucker was reprimanded for what he did. I'm proud that you actually did something about it too. I find women are definitely recognizing and identifying inappropriate behaviour more and more yet there is still not enough women actually DOING something about it. We need to not just complain to our friends and vent on the internet but take the leap and attempt to resolve things completely and professionally. Also, you're looking so good whilst fighting for women, that dress is ca-y-ooot.

    Cats In Crop Tops

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  8. It upsets me so much when wom*an get treated this way. I've been a victim of it several times; the honking, blocking my path, and even purposely brushing onto me. The thing about all of these times is that I wasn't even dressed "provocatively" as I'm a jeans and sweater or basic tee kinda gal.
    It's so good that you found such a lovely job and also reported him for treating you in that rude manner.

    Vegetarian Courtesy

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  9. Oh my God! May I just say that that was such a horrible interviewer?! Yes, I say that, not he, because a creep like that should not be respectfully regarded as a human being in my book. Glad that everything works out for you and you now want to help other people who might have gone through the same stuff. By the way, I came here from Annika's blog just to let you know how I applaud your bravery in showing off your body hair. I'm working up my courage to finally be able to stand for that. My leg hair is fine but armpit hair is still a little hard for me. Maybe one day. Anyway, cool post and don't ever stop fighting for this cause!

    Alive as Always

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  10. Yikes! Fucking bastard. It reminded me of the countless times male interviewers asked me if I was married or if I had a boyfriend... What the fuck?! I've probably told you before but I really admire you and your attitude towards these things that still happen nowadays...One thing I've noticed here in Dublin (where I am currently): I have never witnessed any sort of cat calling/street harassment! Ever. They tend to smile and say a joke about the weather forecast but all in a nice way... Maybe they care way too much about her sisters and mothers and that adds to the respect they feel for women :)) xx

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  11. You are AMAZING and I'm hugely relieved to hear about such a positive outcome - so few women (a) stand up for themselves and (b) are actual ambassadors for change. You did both and are an absolute inspiration. xx

    -Kara
    thedressedaesthetic.com

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  12. You are such an inspiration - you take negative experiences and make them a positive, using it to help others and not get you down. Never let anything get to you - you are an amazing human and the world is a better place already simply because you're in it!

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  13. Woah I just found your blog and you are one inspirational lady! That sounds like the worst interview in the world but you are a gem for standing up for your right not be abused. I so hope it encourages more women to do the same. I can't count the number of cat calls I get and it makes me feel so sad when it happens, I truly hope the world can change and that one day that will not be the norm.
    Lally

    www.lallymacbeth.com

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  14. What an absolute dick he is. So glad he got his just desserts

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  15. Ugh what a horrible man. I am so stuck at the moment on how people can be so against feminism and I'm like omg ARE YOU BLIND look at what we have to put up with EVERY FREAKING DAY! Scuse the rant haha. I got a message from a number that clearly wasn't in my contacts last week saying "hi amber how are you babe?" and for ages I couldn't think who it'd be, but they knew my name! I figured who it might be and compared the numbers. It was this guy who I met briefly a year ago, thought he was lovely, swapped numbers, he ended up texting me non-stop, even when I asked him to simmer down. I ended up starting to ignore his messages until he sent me the weirdest one asking me to describe my vagina "in my own words, please". (I responded with "have you seen the film teeth" haha). Then I ignored him but he still texted me, about once a month after that, until I blocked his number. Then this "how are you babe?" came through three months after blocking his number on whatsapp. So now I've had to block him on whatsapp too. I can't even remember what he looks like, I hope he doesn't remember what I look like. That's just one of my most recent difficulties! Sorry for rambling I just wanted to share it with someone. xo
    amber love

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  16. Let's Talk Sexual Harassment/ Wearing a Sexy Dress. Hey there! CW: sexual ... ssexydresses.blogspot.com

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  17. Change of topic. So excited for you new job! I too landed my dream job last summer, at our town's thrift shop, after four years of volunteering. Please share more about your store.

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  19. I love this post and I love you! Also love your dress *SOCUTE* It's refreshing to see more posts about cat-calling and how its absolutely awful and happens every single day.

    http://welcometoflipsville.blogspot.ca

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  20. Katie, you are inspirational. So amazing to have found your blog here, thank you for all the work you are doing;- for in these experiences that you have, and actions that you make, all the learning you are doing, is helping all of us women (and men) to change and grow too, you know? That doesn't mean you should have to go through horrible experiences (like the one you so well recounted with the 'man'ager) but if you do, you are giving strengh to others so they know what to do. Its incredible. More important than any qualification or assumed intelligence. You look gorgeous in this dress, the pictures are great with you and Annika, i feel like your words and pictures compliment each other so well because they are both strikingly STRONG. And feminine, in its true sense. A raw energy. Hugs, Betsy

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  21. It's a shame that you have to watch out for simply wearing something. What I wouldn't give to live in the world where people can just go out and be whatever they want, wear whatever they like, without worrying about their welfare or some guy's behavior. It is constraining. People should at least be able to empathize with this aspect of the problem. The best then do from there is to learn, be more ethical and help enforce existing laws against harassment.

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  31. I never believed in spell casting but After 6 years of dating, I still imagine how Dr Aza brought my ex lover back to me in just 24 hour. No one could have ever made me believe that there is a real spell caster that really work. am obehi by me,I want to quickly tell the world that there is a real on line spell caster that is powerful and genuine, His name is Dr Aza, He helped me recently to reunite my relationship when my ex lover who left me, When i contacted Dr Aza he cast a love spell for me and my ex lover who said he doesn't have anything to do with me again, he called me and started begging me. he is back now with so much love and caring. today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the powers of bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my lover,and the most surprise,is that our love is very strong,every day is happiness and joy. and there is nothing like been with the man you love.i am so happy my love is back to me with the help of Dr.Aza if you have similar problem i will advice you to contact him ,he is there to help you and put a smile on your face. his email: azaspellcaster@gmail.com or you can whats app his line:+2348107155060

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  32. i never believed that i could finally get back the happiness and the love that was gone after my husband left me totally. I couldn't just believe that spells and magic could turn my thoughts and my dreams into reality in getting back with my husband after he served me with divorce papers.. my ex husband after the divorce never showed up to me and the kids anymore, he finally made up his mind on me and said it was over. 2 years after our divorce, i was still out trying to get him back and i did all that i knew best could make him happy, and my mum and everybody around just advised i should forget about him and move on with my life, because they felt he was gone forever and was never gonna return. But i never gave up on trying to get him back, because i so much loved him beyond what anybody could ever imagine. I met a spell caster, and what drew my attention most was the fact that this spell caster was presently here in Florida when i contacted him. And that so much gave me the assurance because i have heard much more on how he has helped a lot of people... and with the help that this spell caster rendered to me, he saved my marriage and reunited me and my ex husband back together again with his powerful spells. Thank you so much Dr.ituafelice for your help in reuniting me and my husband again, if not for you, my life would have permanently turned out to be a mess. contact his Email on OMOGAGISPIRITUALHOME@GMAIL.COM call or whatsapp him on +2347086722395 he is indeed a great man contact him now and save your marriage..

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  33. As hard as my husband thought he was, Dr. Wakina was able to soften his heart and make him comeback home. My husband of 4 years and I went for a 5 month marriage break because he was too abusive. He only make love to me when he is drunk. Almost at the end of the 5 month break, he started seeing new woman when we started reconnecting, he stopped caring for me or even seeing me after work. I almost lose him in the hands of the new woman.
    I emailed Doc Wakina to help me the way he has been helping others via (dr.wakinalovetemple@gmail.com), I can’t foolishly lose him to another, I don’t mind going to the extreme to get back my husband. Behold my case looked so complicated because I initiated the idea of 5 month break, but since my conscience was clear, the love spell worked perfectly well for us. He never spoke of her or any, I feel like woman and enjoy his romance. I wonder where I could have been if not for Dr. Wakina’s love spell. He is simply the best. I love you great doctor.

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  34. My love left me for another woman in December last year. We have been married for 10years and we have 3 beautiful girls together I didn't see it coming at all. I still love him but I thought there is nothing i can do until i meet a man on the internet call Doctor Nosa . I struggled for first 2 months. I wanted to kill myself. I thought my life was over, but you know what. But you know what, Doctor Nosa bring back my joy by casting a spell that brought my husband in 48 hours, now i am so happy, you can contact this wonderful my on his email : drmosaspellcaster@gmail.com or call him on +2349037375170

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  35. Am writing this article to thank Dr.Trust for the wondrous miracle that he did for me because he helped me recently to bring back my Ex husband. Thank you sir for your genuine spells. This is really incredible,I have never experienced anything like this in my life. Before i met you Sir, i have tried every probable means that i could to get my husband back, but i actually came to realize that nothing was working out for me, and that my husband had developed lot of hatred for me.. I thought there was no hope to reunite with my husband. But when i read good reviews about how Dr.Trust help others get back there ex lovers, make others to win big on lottery, cure of any sickness. I decided to give it a try and i did everything that he instructed me and i Trusted him and followed his instructions just as he guaranteed me in 48 hours, and that was exactly when my husband called me and come back to me.. I'm so happy for the good work you did for me. We are more contented now than ever. Everything looks perfect and so natural! Thank you so much Sir for your authentic and indisputable spells. Email him now for help {Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com} call +2348109842976 Web site http://ultimatespellcast8.wix.com/ultimatespellcast Thanks Sir for your help.

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  36. Note before you read; this review is based on a true life story, feel free to read it all the way though.
    David, my fiancé is the first man I fell in love with, I got my first kiss from him 22yeras. I gave him everything he desires thinking he would never hurt me even though I knew our love might not last forever because we were obsessed with each other which gradually contaminated our relationship. But I did think he wasn’t going to breakup with me one day because of his pronounced promises.
    March 17th about 05:12am he broke up with me in a note, I woke up to see it on my bed. I was suppressed, I tried to stay strong at work but when I return home I cry myself to bed.
    After some months he started flirting with strange girls and I was indeed jealous, though I tied other men, but I was never really over him. He is my first love and I have to get him back ASAP. My luck lead me to Dr. Wakina via his spiritual email dr.wakinalovetemple@gmail.com. I got help like others. Dr. Wakina through his love spell gave me a second chance to get back my fiancé. The impossible became possible after our new found love for each other became productive.
    I’m proud to share this hoping it might help someone out there.

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  38. I have been in a pretty serious relation with my boyfriend for about four years. We often talk about marriage, buying a bigger house and names for our unborn children. So the talking was gradually becoming boring to us, he decided to make it official April this year, we went out together to look for engagement rings, I made my choice.
    He disappeared on our engagement day, I and my friends waited for him but he did not show up. I almost took my life because I could not handle the embarrassment. Everything about him went death for about two weeks before my best friend advised me to contact Dr. Wakina via (dr.wakinalovetemple@gmail.com) for supernatural help. The spell doctor did the readings and told me everything I should know, the main reason he ran away, the lady he ran to and how to permanently solve his problem to bring him back and make him stay for eternity. I immediately ordered him to proceed with the spell because I couldn’t handle life any more. As promised by Dr. Wakina, Fredrick came back to me four days after the love spell with the ring, begging for fogginess before engaging me. I totally forgave him and also forgave myself for planning to take my life.
    We are already married and expecting a baby. It’s all because of Dr. Wakina’s doing via (dr.wakinalovetemple@gmail.com), I shall forever be indebted to you sir. I and my family say thank you.

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  42. MARRIAGE RESTORED! My wife pack out of the house with my kids and said she was no longer interested in me anymore. She said all the abusive words and said am not a good husband because I wasn't working, instead I was wasting her time, so i contacted this Strong spell caster RAVIDATT VYAS a week ago after reading Miracles about his spell over the net, I consulted him for a love spell, crying not knowing what to do. He told me that he will cast a love spell for me so my wife will come back to me. After 4 days of casting the spell, my wife called me apologizing and begging me to come home. The tender that i was waiting for was approved and she started telling me that am a good husband that I should forgive her for the bad things she had said. Am thanking RAVIDATT VYAS for the Faith and Trust he showed me. if any body is out there passing through any relationship difficulties should kindly contact him via email: (ravidattvyas522@gmail.com)

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  43. ALL THANKS TO DR OTARU FOR THE GREAT THIN HE HAVE DON FOR ME AND MY FAMILY my name is Miss ruiz mary am from Texas, am a woman who love and cherish my husband more than any other thing you can imagine on earth . My husband was so lovely and caring after 3years of marriage he was seriously ill and the doctor confirm and said he has a kidney infection that he needed a kidney donor, that was how I start searching for a good Samaritan who can help,doctor has given me a periodic hour that he will live just 26hours left, that was how I ask the doctor if I can be of help to my husband that was how he carried out the text,the confirming was successful, I was now having this taught that since 3 years now we got married I have not be able to get pregnant can I be able to get bring again? That was the question I ask the doctor, he never answer his response was did you want to lost your husband? I immediately reply no I can't afford to loose him. After the operation my husband came back to live and was healthy I was also OK with the instruction given to me by the doctor, after 3months my husband came home with another lady telling me, that is our new wife that will give us kids and take care of us, that was how I was confused and started crying all day, that was how my husband ran away with his new wife Clara belle. Since then I was confuse don't no what to do that was how I went back to the doctor and tell him everything, he told me that, this is not just an ordinary it must be a spiritual problem that was how he gave me this email (otarusolutionhome@gmail.com that I should tell him all my problem that he can help that was how i contacted him and I do as instructed. After 3days and I have done what he ask me to do, my husband start searching for me and went back to the doctor, that was how we where settle she also told me not to worry that I will get pregnant, this month making it the fifth Month I contacted him am now 3months pregnant. These great spell cater is a great man, if you are any kind of problem you can contact him here on his email otarusolutionhome@gmail.om his mobile contact +2348107345943

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  44. I WANT TO TAKE THIS TIME OUT TO EXPRESS MY HAPPINESS AND APPRECIATION TO DOCTOR NOBLE THE ITALIAN SPELL CASTER(noblespellhome@gmail.com) WHO HELPED ME IN GETTING MY EX BACK .
    Am so glad to share to the world what doctor Noble did for me, he brought back my lover, my joy, my life and my everything,after my boyfriend broke up with me because of another girl who they worked together in same company , i was so devastated, for six months I was so frustrated and restless because I couldn't imagine myself without him, I so much loved him, I tried everything to get him back but no success. I was scared to contact a spell caster because of fear of being scammed..but a friend of mine told me he knew a powerful love spell caster in ITALY, so I decided to give him a try and to my greatest surprise in less than 2 weeks my ex came back begging and I was so happy and I accepted him and we are together now and even stronger. All thanks to doctor Noble. You can contact him via noblespellhome@gmail.com
    Thanks for your time.

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  45. I am Ciara Robin..all gratitude to this great spell caster that help me to bring back my husband that left me for another lady.we have been married for about 3 years,but when we were celebrating our marriage anniversary, there was a lady that came to our anniversary party night and was sitting at one corner of the house, my husband was sitting close to me at the first instance, but as soon as that lady worked in the party my husband left his sit to meet the lady, and that was how it happen, he never came back home that evening, i cried all through the night,and when him came back i ask him where he spend the night he yelled at me and told me it over he left home and i tried to call him but he never responded to my calls and my messages, until i went online to search for help that was how i saw the miraculous way that Dr BAWADA has re-unite several broken homes and immediately i wrote to him for help and he replied me that he will cast love spell that will return my husband to me to stay with me and never leave me again. i believed and did all that was asked of me from him and that was how he cast the spell and within 24 hours my husband return back begging not to leave me again.today i am happy with my husband.contact Dr BAWADA on his email:drbawadasolutionhome@gmail.com or contact his cell number+2348110156066 or web/site
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  47. My husband and I have been married for 3 and a half years. In June it will be 7 years that we have been a part of each other lives. Recently he found out about a guy I slept with when we were separated and I did not tell him about. Before we got married we both agreed to let everything out and start fresh. I didn’t tell him. I was embarrassed bc the guy and I never actually had sex…just everything that led up to it. not to mention it was my brothers best friend and a huge mistake. well it came out recently along with some lies. A friend told my husband I cheated on him and I have never cheated on my husband nor would I ever. He is convinced I am a cheater. we have 2 beautiful kids and all I have ever wanted is a happy family. my kids and my husband truly are my everything. I can not see a future where my husband is not in it. I want to do whatever I can to save my marriage but I feel my husband is already set on the divorce. I know I could have been a better wife to him….a wife he deserves but now I fee like I have realized it too late. I look at my kids and I hate myself for allowing myself to break my family apart. I know my husband is not perfect and he has hurt me tremendously these past 5 years we have been off and on but we made it through for a reason. I love him and I want to save my marriage, one day a friend of my introduce me to a spell caster online who lift me up gave me hope and with-in 2 days after his spell my husband who told me he needed a divorce, called me and take me back home to me i must say today we are happily as one big family again all thanks to Dr happy a father and a real spell caster.Contact email address happylovespell2@gmail.com Call and Whats-App him +2348133873774 Also contact and know more about his service at http://happyspelltemple.webs.com/

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  48. Hey guys, I'm so excited getting my Ex-husband back after a breakup. After 2 years of marriage, me and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me and moved to California to be with another woman. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help get ex back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a (Love spell) for me. 28 hours later, my husband really called me and told me that he miss me and the kids so much, So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and the kids. Then from that day,our Marriage was now stronger than how it were before,All thanks to Dr Unity. he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet that Dr Unity he is and real and powerful spell caster who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are here and you need your Ex back or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact: Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,
    you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2348071622464 ,
    his website:http://unityspelltemple.yolasite.com .
    Jessica, 26 years, Texas, USA.

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  49. I never knew people still have powers and make things happened this way. my Husband James Scot left me for another woman for three months' ever since then my life have been filled with pains sorrow and heart break because he was my first love who disflowered me when i was 21 years old. about two years ago, A friend of mine rose donly told me he saw some testimonies of this great priest tokubo that he can bring back lover within 24 hours, i laugh it out and said i am not interested but because of the love my friend had for me, she consulted the great priest on my behalf and to my greatest surprise after 24 hours my boyfriend is going to call me for the very first time after three months that he is missing me and that he is so sorry for every thing he made me went through. i still can't believe it, because it highly unbelievable it just too real to be real. Thank you priest tokubo for bringing back my lover and also to my lovely friend who interceded on my behalf, for any one who might need the help of this great priest here is the email address: highpriesttokubo@gmail.com

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